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Finding the Good in Others

Our thoughts and words are powerful. Parents play an important role in the way children see themselves as well as the way they view others. Remember, our little ones are watching and listening to us.

They are learning about the world around them as they observe how we respond to people and events.

Whether we want the responsibility or not, the way we view the world and the people in our child’s life will have a big influence on the way they view things.

It should also encourage us to be kind and patient with people you and your child come in contact with –  in your home, family members, people in your neighborhood, and church.

Let me share this short classic folk story that illustrates this point.

2 men standing next to a field one is pointing to the right.

A traveler came upon an old farmer hoeing in his field beside the road. Eager to rest his feet, the wanderer hailed the countryman who seemed happy enough to straighten his back and talk for a moment.

“What sort of people live in the next town?” asked the stranger.

“What were the people like where you’ve come from?” replied the farmer, answering the question with another question.

“They were a bad lot. Troublemakers all, and lazy, too. The most selfish people in the world, and not one of them to be trusted. I’m happy to be leaving the scoundrels.”

“Is that so?” replied the farmer. “Well, I’m afraid that you’ll find the same sort in the next town.”

Disappointed, the traveler trudged on his way, and the farmer returned to his work.

Sometime later, another stranger coming from the same direction hailed the farmer, and they stopped to talk.

“What sort of people live in the next town?” he asked.
“What were the people like from where you came from?” replied the farmer once again.

“They were the best people in the world. Hard working, honest, and friendly. I’m sorry to be leaving them.”
“Fear not,” said the farmer, “You’ll find the same sort in the next town.”

2 little girls hugging

We usually see what we’re looking for. Let’s encourage our children to try and find the best in others, and to trust God when situations get challenging.

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